Let me show you how inverted , upside down this world is.
A boy meets a girl. They first engage in conversation and eventually go out on a date. After a while their physical attraction grows stronger and before long they have sex with each other. Then they think we are in love, but that my friend that is lust not love. They then get marry but the physical life plays out and before long they declare one or the other, I don’t love her or I don’t love him anymore. The physical has gone. I don’t know how many times I have seen this played out in marriages. It is tragic.
You see this is was never, ever the intent of how God set it up. Man and woman are to know each other first spiritually , next the soul( personality), and last after marriage the physical.
This holds true with same sex attraction it is purely physical and soulish. It is empty.
If you are in a relationship and it is purely physical(eros), I can guarantee it probably will not be a lasting one.