Don’t be drunk with wine, because that will ruin your life. Instead, be filled with the Holy Spirit, singing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs among yourselves, and making music to the Lord in your hearts.
First, this is a command- “ be filled”.
Secondly, the effects of being filled with the Spirit is:
Singing psalms, hymns, and spiritual songs
Making music in your heart and
Vs. 20 says –“ Giving thanks”
I can tell you a complaining, critical person is not filled with the Spirit. No way!