Peace of God

1 Corinthians 1:3 (NLT2)  -"May God our Father and the Lord Jesus Christ give you grace and peace."
Who does not want that inner peace that comes from the grace of God? But we look around and we see turmoil, feuding and fighting. Internal and external struggles. We see the constant arguing among couples. The damage it does to the relationship and the family. When two profess to be followers of Christ, why are they continually bickering and fighting? For the "fruit of the Spirit" is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control.( Gal.5:22). In a warring family there is no fruit of the Spirit in fact there is no presence of the Holy Spirit for they have deeply grieved Him and He doesn't go where He is welcome.